Over the past few weeks I've gone into some details about Cognitive Behavioural Therapy self-help programs that are available for individuals with Anxiety or Depression to use, either on their own or with the support of their therapist or counsellor. One of the programs I've recommended is the Desling with Depression books available from the Minsitry of children and Family Services, or from www.heretohelp.ca.
These are excellent, short, easy to use, step-by-step books that guide you through the therapeutic process. Several people have asked me about the major three skills and how I teach them. It would be inappropriate to go into any detail here, you either should be using these books on your own or with the help of a therapist, and internet questions and answers are no replacement for a proper medical/psychological diagnosis and treatment. (Remember: ALWAYS start by seeing your medical doctor! Sometimes what we think is depression, and what looks like depression, is really something physical. Go to your family doctor, or a walk-in clinic and get a good check up.) However, I will go over the three "antidepressant Skills" that most of these programs discuss. You should make sure your plan for dealing with depression includes these.
1) Realistic Thinking. Much of what Cognitive behavioural Therapy is about is "Realisitic Thinking." This is a process you will review and PRACTICE again and again in many settings and situations. You will learn to spot depressive thoughts that lead to depressed moods; challenge those depressive thoughts; come up with realistic thoughts; and then practice this realistic thinking. These are not happy thoughts, it's not about "positive thinking," or some other simplistic distraction from reality. It's about learning to think "realistically" even when your brain, your mood and the situation want to keep you from doing that.
2) Problem Solving. Problem solving is the next skill you will learn in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Through exercises, worksheets and face-to-face practice you will learn to: Better understand the problems your dealing with- because they are real and have real effects; come up with several different solutions to those problems; and then select the best solution and start the problem solving process. Sounds easy, but often this is difficult in a time of crisis, depressed mood or anxiety.
3) Goal Setting. Goal setting is about moving from a position of knowing what your going to go to planning how your going to do it. Once you know what you want, unless you have a good plan, your just going to be waiting for it to come to you unless you have a plan. In goal setting sessions you will: Learn to set goals that are important to you; make goals that are likely to succeed; and move on to new goals.
Some of the other things we do in face-to-face sessions for depression are: dealing with sleep issues, dealing with anxiety, learning to cope with intrusive negative thoughts (thought stopping), learn how to relax by using external cues, examine our diets and....sorry...making sure you are exercising enough. Studies show that moderate exercise (under the supervision of your doctor) is one of THE most effective tools you have to deal with depression.
As I look over this list it seems simple, easy, and you wonder why anyone needs a therapist ..or even a book? Well, these things are not so easy to do when you are suffering from depression and anxiety. Thinking clearly, which is something we all need to do to do this right, is difficult at these times. Support and advice help to keep you on track and monitor your progress. And much of what we have discussed here is really about learning to think differently than you do now. In the early days of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), when it was called Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) this learning how to think differently was called "the disputation," because, in effect your therapist disputes your irrational thoughts and makes you defend them...or pick new thoughts that can be defended. This is a critical part of the process.
So, to sum up, CBT for Depression focuses on three areas: Realistic Thinking; Problem Solving; and Goal Setting. In addition to that several very specific skills are taught to address intrusive thoughts, sleep problems and other specific symptoms giving you difficulty. I hope this addresses the questions people emailed.
For more information about the services I provide my web page can be found at www.relatedminds.com, http://www.relatedminds.com/depression. Other information on my practice can be found at: http://Therapists.Psychologytoday.com/70682, http://www.bcpsychologist.org/users/jimroche, and http://psyris.com/drjimroche
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